Showing posts with label helping others. Show all posts
Showing posts with label helping others. Show all posts

Sunday, February 15, 2015

Watching Out for the Other Guy

English: The Poor helping the poor
 The Poor helping the poor (Photo credit: Wikipedia)


Whoever is kind to the poor lends to the Lord,
and He will reward them for what they have done.

Proverbs 19:17
New International Version (NIV)
         
        We all know that helping the poor and those in less fortunate circumstances is a good thing to do.  We might not always follow through on this, but most of try at least now and then to give where help is needed.  Even a quarter to a sidewalk beggar can be an act of selflessness.  

         But poverty is not always synonymous with destitution.   We all have needs of some kind at one time or another.  And so does everyone else.  We rarely know the complete story of those we encounter in daily life.  A stranger in a bad mood might be merely reacting to some terrible situation that has occurred in his life.  The distracted waitress who isn't serving us as well as we think she should be might be dealing with immense problems in her life.

         We don't know the needs of others just by looking at them, but sometimes a smile or a kind word can do wonders for a burdened heart.  There's no need for payback when doing something out of the goodness within us.  We shouldn't ever expect that.  However good things will come from the good that we do for others.  That goodness might not always be recognizable to us yet our helping to make the world a little bit of a better place can help make us a whole lot of a better person.

        There's truth in that adage "What goes around, comes around."   Not that we have to see it in any big way, but sometimes good things come our way because of what we've done for someone else and we may not even make the connection.

         The good we do doesn't escape God's notice.  Take care of others and you'll be doing the right thing.


Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility regard others as better than yourselves. Let each of you look not to your own interests, but to the interests of others.
Philippians 2:3-4
New Revised Standard Version (NRSV)

Sunday, February 8, 2015

On Being Different

English: Watching you watching me. With four e...
 Watching you watching me. With four eyes watching its back this Peacock Butterfly makes a colorful contribution to the landscape in early September. This one has had a close shave at sometime in the past. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

"...the Lord does not see as man sees; for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
1 Samuel 16:7
New King James Version (NKJV)

      Do you remember those kids in school that all the other kids made mean jokes about and perhaps even ridiculed to their faces?  Or maybe it was that strange elderly lady that lived in your neighborhood or some guy who dressed funny and acted peculiar. 

      Most of us can think of someone in our lives that we've seen or even known who seemed somewhat strange or different from everyone else.  Poking fun at others has long been a way we deal with those who are not like us.   There are even websites devoted to this pastime. 

      If we don't know anything about a person other than the way they look or behave outwardly, how can we have the right to say mean things about them or poke fun at their expense?   Their appearance might be a matter of upbringing, financial circumstance or health issues.   Some people may even appear strange because that's how they want to look.

       Maybe if we're thinking negative thoughts about another person of whom we know nothing, it might be a good reason to just say hello to that person instead.  Give them a smile or offer them a helping hand.

         Next time you're looking at another person in ridicule or contempt, remember that someone else might be looking at you in the same way.  None of us are exempt from the eyes of judgement.

Do not judge, or you too will be judged.  For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.

Sunday, August 31, 2014

The Harvest of Sowing

A charitable couple giving money to a poor monk.
A charitable couple giving money to a poor monk. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)


Whoever is kind to the poor lends to the Lord,
and He will reward them for what they have done.

Proverbs 19:17
New International Version (NIV)

          Poverty does not always have something to do with money or assets.  When we think about giving to "the poor", we often picture handing coins to some destitute street person with a scrawled sign asking for money.   Or we might think about giving money to help a charitable organization that takes care of the needy.   These are fine ways to help and we should be encouraged to help those who are in need of resources.

          Some of us might be a bit strapped for funds ourselves to the point that there seems little we can do to help the poor with monetary giving.   Keep in mind that needs are not always addressed by giving money.  Volunteering to help others is an excellent way to lend to the Lord.    Sometimes just hanging out with a person who is lonely, suffering, or sad can be as good as gold to that person.

          Your time and your talent are God's gifts to you.  They are meant to be used to help others.  When you become a person who gives freely to others, you will find yourself blessed in return.   Don't think that if you have financial abundance that just dishing out big checks is all you need to do.  Sure, keep on giving away the money if you have it to give, but don't forget your other assets that God has blessed you with.

         And if you don't have the money to spare, you surely have something that you can share with others.  Be a light in the darkness.   Start with the simple things--a smile, a kind word, or a helping hand.  See what happens.    Receiving a smile in return for the one you've given is a good feeling.    Someone out there needs your love and encouragement.

Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
Luke 6:38
New International Version (NIV)